Shafiqah Othman
2 min readDec 6, 2020

As a mother, one of the questions I hate hearing is, “Why would you choose career over being a mother?” Let’s try turn this question around. Why would a man choose his career over being a father? Why don’t men just stay at home and leave the working to the woman?

Imagine being a parent that was forced to stay home solely to take care of the home and kids? Before you fall asleep, what do you think of? What do you dream of? As any person would, you’d do whatever within your capabilities to achieve that dream. Why do only fathers get the unquestionable freedom to go chase their dreams? What happened to the mothers?

Shafiqah Othman

Alchemical writer. I write about mental health, politics, religion, psychospirituality, and philosophy.